Author Archives: Just Vegas

About Just Vegas

I'm a 30-something married SAHM which means the nightmare scenario that plagued my early 20's has become reality. Funny thing is, I kinda like it. I have 3 lovely daughters who are educated at home and at a part-time alternative school. I love animals and I love people (in the general sense, not everybody all the time). I have no income to speak of, I'm not crafty and I hate cooking. My skills include reading the internet, watching tv on the internet and conversing with people on the internet. I'm an armchair philosopher, spiritualist, agnostic, feminist, liberal, activist, political pundit and tv critic.

This is Not a Moment it’s the Movement

Unpopular opinion (apparently): The Aziz Ansari story is an example of rape culture. Rape culture is part of patriarchal culture but more specific and everything patriarchal culture does contributes to rape culture. Rape culture includes *everything* that makes it easier … Continue reading

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Year End Inventory

I thought I’d take some time to look back over 2017. There were lots of highs and lows, it definitely doesn’t register in my 5 worst years and probably falls into my ten best. The world felt like it was … Continue reading

Posted in Grief, Holidays, Musings, My Family-I Love Them Anyway, My Friends - They Love Me Anyway, PTSD is a bitch, Survival, The Babies | 2 Comments

Weight and Mental Illness

  “In 2010, at the lowest point in my adult life, I was looking everywhere for relief/comfort/distraction. And I turned to food. It could have been anything. Drugs. Alcohol. Sex. But eating became the one thing I could look forward … Continue reading

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Because even if you want to insist that you are not a bully or a racist or misogynist, by voting for him, you tell my children that it’s okay to be those things. Continue reading

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Tonight I am going to just not be okay for a little while. I’ve grown used to being okay and it is such a ridiculously great place to be. But I haven’t been okay lately and I think tonight I … Continue reading

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Sunday Meditation

I’ve been making a list of the things they don’t teach you at school. They don’t teach you how to love somebody. They don’t teach you how to be famous. They don’t teach you how to be rich or how … Continue reading

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On the Anniversary of Your Death

I wrote this in 2015, one year after my sister passed away. I like to revisit it once or twice a year and walk through the memories again. Her life and her death. Her own story and my story as her … Continue reading

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